By Nairaland Forum I know you may later find my identity but I don’t care becuase I need help.
I have this loving girlfriend, actually I love her so much and she in many occasions proven how much she loves me. I met her in school around 2014, we were good friends though I asked her for a date then and she said we have no future together then later on she told me if I can date her without being affectionate, I thought she will be using me what’s love without affection didn’t know she was scared of me breaking her heart, I left school and somehow around May this year I kept disturbing her and at last she gave in, she’s a Muslim, we don’t mind. She is my first real love.
We been really so good that I thought she’s the best option for me in marriage, actually I didn’t think I wanted kids but she changed my views and now I started thinking about raising a family with her.
When it becomes really so deep I thought I should let my family know, I have known her as a best friend and now as a girlfriend so I already believes we would be good for a couple so to test the dept of the sea with one leg I had to let my mum know, she was fond of her when I spoke with her on phone, she didn’t mind that she was a Muslim from another state but on talking about marriage the whole thing took a new turn.
And before hand the talk got to more family members and I’m this kind of guy that people takes so serious in my house becuase before I say things I already done it halve way, now they say marriage is not something one just go into but that they were happy I spoke on that earlier on.
They say they need some spiritual examination I gave them go ahead, I’m 24 years old, planning to marry her in about 2 to three years. Now they came back saying she’s an Ogbanje and that anybody who marries her may die Young. Note I don’t really believe those but my family does.
My main issue is I had been battling an underlying health condition now and I’m not sure of staying around for so long and if anything happens to me while we are married my Read More
Source:: Nigerian Chatter